Hanging Out
An aspect of our trip that has it's good and bad aspects is the extended stay at Madras Christian College. For me it's meant making friends here on the campus and getting to know a number of people that are not from Tamil Nadu. Other people have said they would have rather been able to do a homestay with a family so that they could better understand regular life in India. If anything though, MCC has provided many of us a great opportunity to get to know other people our age.
My friendships here at MCC have largely been made with guys from St Thomas Hall, one of the three men's hostels here on campus. The other two halls are Bishop Heber and Selaiyur. Much of the friendships I have made here however are thanks to an already existent friendship between Brian Orland of Davidson and Aiyappa KA of Thomas hall. The two became friends two years ago when Brian was here with Davidson, but really took off over the summer when Brian came back to Tambaram for the summer. So fulfilling our promise to Brian, early in September Ethan and I made our way over to Thomas hall to find Aiyappa. It took a little bit of effort but eventually we found him. An amicable guy we found him and the other guys friendly and welcoming.
After the breaking the ice I have continued to frequent Thomas hall. One of the pleasantries of living here on the campus is the prevalance of English speakers. While even rickshaw drivers know a few words of English it would difficult for me to ask them about the social significance of the lungi. The halls afford an opportunity to speak with educated people our own age, essentially, our peers. Now don't get the wrong impression. One of the more significant things we have been able to do here is talk with people that we no nothing of, and they know nothing of us, in particular those of the lower classes and castes. The students however have a common world view with us based on similar age and opportunity. This is important to me because among the halls you are treated as a guest, but not a foreigner. Conversation is casual but poignant. The halls offer the opportunity to enjoy the company of others as a person and not as a westerner. The comfort afforded here makes it feel more like home.
One thing I've learned is that students our age have similar interests across the world. We share music, movies, and a love for a good time. With the students I've gotten to play cricket and have been introduced to arrack. Recently all the Davidson came to Thomas hall for a barbecue. Aiyappa and Bala made us some chicken. Taking some wood from the campus and an improvised grill we had some chicken marinated in yoghurt, masala, chili pepper, salt, and lime. Pretty damn good stuff. We had the locally preferred Old Monk and Coke to wash it down.
I have no idea when I'll return to India. It's good to know, however, there will be some people here to welcome me back when I do.